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Are you Happy?

Generally, when people meet someone they ask how is career, married, or do they bought a car or property or something like this.

 But they never ask “Are you happy?”

I reached out to this idea from a tweet where the guy tweets a famous quote by legendary Heath Ledger. I loved this idea and was fascinated. 

But when I think about it for more seconds I also sort of ask myself, is it practical? 

Imagine, meeting someone and asking if are you happy, it does sounds good but not a question to ask everyone when we meet. 

So what is the best way to ask about someone that implies the idea of asking are you happy? 

It may or can go like, what are you doing these days? And then continue asking about what is the progress or what is the idea behind that particular task or project. Also, there may not be always the case they reply with something. Sometimes people may be in the phase where they do not do anything. 

In such case, here we can ask is everything all right? If I can help you? 

Life is hard tbh there are a lot of parameters to take care of, and when we care about some particular parameter the other one calls for us. And it goes on and on like this. And it is obvious that we cannot follow all those parameters at once. So always go one or small portion at a time. 

Also, we do not get those particular things we are in need of for some time. And there is no other option to wait for time to get that particular thing. All we can do is what is in our hands to try to achieve by doing our responsibility. Till then just try to be happy with what we have. 

It is easier to try to be happy for one but it is difficult to maintain the same feeling for others to feel too (like family). In those cases, do not feel too bad for not getting to help them. Think about yourself too, you tried to do it for them but it was not possible. Now how can you do something which is out of your control? Just accept the present and live it. Try to adapt and make others adapt to the condition. And believe that time will make it heal. Bad times make the person's good time more persistent and respect the good time.

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